While the holidays are a time of joy, they can also be a time when our day-to-day lives are uprooted. When our usual rhythm disappears due to schedule shifts and rising social demands, even the happiest moments can feel overwhelming. The combination of travel, gatherings, late nights, and added responsibilities can slowly chip away at our emotional balance without us even realizing it.
Our routines can help us keep a sense of calm and predictability during a time of chaos, stress, and tension. Even small rituals—the ones that feel almost too simple to matter—can act as grounding tools that help regulate mood and support holiday mental health.
Signs You May Be Struggling
- Irritability
- Trouble sleeping
- Changes in appetite
- Reactivity or unusual sensitivity to stress
- Withdrawal from activities you usually enjoy
- Feeling overwhelmed by small tasks
- Emotional heaviness
- Difficulty concentrating
Benefits of Routines
While strict routines can be hard to maintain, having a structure to your day—even a loose one—creates psychological stability. When your brain knows what to expect next, it doesn’t have to work as hard to manage uncertainty, which often manifests as anxiety.
Routines also support emotional regulation by reinforcing the body’s natural circadian rhythms, reducing cognitive load, and stabilizing hormones that affect mood—like cortisol, adrenaline, and serotonin. When these systems stay balanced, your mood becomes steadier and less reactive to stress.
This is how routines regulate mood: by helping your nervous system shift out of “fight-or-flight” mode and into a more grounded, restorative state. They build consistency, predictability, and a sense of control, which are the key factors in protecting mental health during stressful seasons.
Mood-Boosting Habits
It’s important to understand the needs of both your body and your mind. Take a holistic approach when forming your habits to ensure your physical and emotional cups are kept full:
- Maintain a steady sleep schedule. Keeping your sleep and wake-up times within a one-hour range can help stabilize your energy and hormones, improving your mood.
- Take medications at the same time each day. Taking medications at different times causes the level of medication in your body to fluctuate, impacting its effectiveness. Setting times helps maintain equilibrium throughout your day.
- Start exercising regularly. Movement doesn’t have to be intense—walking, stretching, or gentle workouts can elevate endorphins, reduce stress, and improve emotional resilience.
- Dedicate time to things you enjoy. Engaging in activities you genuinely enjoy activates the brain’s reward pathways, increasing dopamine and serotonin levels, which help stabilize mood and reduce stress.
- Set intentional time for connection. Whether you want to prioritize time with your partner, close relatives, social circle, or community group, we are not solitary creatures: we need connection to regulate our systems.
Keep your goals realistic and achievable. While we all wish there was a one-size-fits-all solution to maintaining our mental health, your habits need to be tailored to you. Trying to fit someone else’s routines into your life would be like fitting a square peg in a round hole. For example, if you can’t go to the gym every day like your favorite influencer appears to, then make it a biweekly activity, or find a more accessible form of fitness to alternate with your gym sessions.
How to Maintain Routines During the Holidays
The holidays are often a time when we need to exercise our right to create boundaries. Once you have identified your needs, your key routines, and your supportive habits, it’s important to defend them. You cannot be a present and joyful participant in the holiday festivities if you aren’t a present and joyful participant in your life at large.
It’s okay to say no, to step back from certain gatherings, or to limit your participation when you feel your energy or emotional bandwidth running low. Your well-being is reason enough.
If you have a difficult time setting boundaries with your family members during the holidays, confide in a partner, friend, or close relative to help you navigate these situations. They can help you protect your peace in the chaotic or overwhelming moment you may find yourself in. Let your loved ones advocate for you if they’re willing, able, and offering.
Finally, adapting your routines can also make them easier to maintain. If you have a set sleep schedule disrupted by travel, try adjusting your bedtime gradually in the days beforehand, or bring familiar wind-down rituals—like a book, calming music, or herbal tea—to help your body stay anchored wherever you go.
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While maintaining healthy routines can help many people navigate stress, particularly in a disruptive time like the holidays, sometimes it is not enough to help manage anxiety. If you feel like you need professional support to manage your mental health, we are here to help during the holidays and beyond.
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